Hi! It’s me again🙈
This is a very playful, fun and possibly the most boring blog ever 😂 a little look at my take on long distance relationships🙈:)
So, research has shown that absence might truly make the heart grow fonder and that couples who participate in a healthy long-distance relationship can have more meaningful interactions than couples who see each other daily 💁
I’ve always seen our relationship journey has a learning opportunity because it constantly tests your commitment, love, trust and patience😜😂 on a whole other level!
It wasn’t easy on certain days and still isn’t but that’s the beauty of it all because the challenge in love is not igniting the flame but keeping the flame burning😍 right? 😄
And as some of you might know my husband and I have been apart for more days than we’ve seen each other🙈🙊 I’m so serious😄 like I’ve seen him for about 100 days this past year😂 and that’s why managing a long distance relationship comes as a challenge 🙈so it’s always a good thing to keep the relationship as normal as possible😂 if that makes any sense 😄
And just because long distance relationships are difficult, and not many people will encourage you to do it, it doesn’t mean they’re impossible🙊 it really makes you appreciate the little things much more 🙏
What makes it easier is that we’ve establish boundaries a long time ago and we were both clear with our expectations, we knew exactly where we would end up 👫 because wasting time is pointless 👎
🎶he put a ring on it🎶
With that being said, I dread every day we spend apart because it feels like it’s never going to end 🙈🔫
I am not the most positive person at all! BUT remaining constantly positive keeps the relationship alive, the waiting can be painful and I often feel lonesome🚶🙇 because there is nothing worse than being the third wheel at dinner with your mates😂 but the reward is greater and well worth the wait! 💃💋
I think the strangest thing is that you don’t have to communicate 24/7 to keep the relationship going☎️ if you anything like me! I hate being on my phone😂 Less is more 😄 creativity is key 🙂 but there has to be a very open and direct line of communication with good reception!!! Because that can really get my knickers in a knot!!! 😂 I can get so angry when there’s no reception!!!!
My LDRR aka long distance romantic relationship 😂 has had it perks! And still does 🙅💁
I never have to look on fleek all the time 🙈 you become independant💁the relationship is more than physical 💪 I think I’m better at communicating 💏 I have loads of “me” time💆💅 we go on exciting trips even if it’s to the local grocery store 🙈✈️you actually become really good at planning😂 and the sense of achievement that we’ve made it work is the greatest perk of all ❤️
If you think about it like really think about it, there’s not much difference. All romantic relationships require the same about of time, effort and commitment.
So, if you find yourself in a LDRR😜 just remember that when two hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break you apart💋
Get your LDRR on!