What It’s Like Being Married To A Pilot – Dhillondeeds

Being married to a travelling man who is gone half your life isn’t easy ๐Ÿ˜‚ but I’m still a newbie and rumour has it you become a professional pilots wife after a few years๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜‚

Let’s be honest! Finding things to occupy your time around the house gets a little tough sometimes๐Ÿ™ˆ because there’s only so much sweeping one can do ๐Ÿ˜‚

But that’s when you praise The Lord for YouTube and the variety of social media ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜œ I sign up to forums! You know, like support groups๐Ÿ˜‚ and I’m like there “Hi my name is Fazeelah and I’m a pilots wife” ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜‚ I can’t deal but a lot of you also keep me very entertained while I await the arrival of my one and only ๐Ÿ™‚

Here’s a little look into my life….๐Ÿ‘€

As a pilots wife you are always faced with misconceptions๐Ÿ˜„ on the real like come on now, my husband flies the plane he doesn’t own the airline ๐Ÿ™ˆ we pay for our tickets, and I do not live in a mansion and I’m certainly not a gold digger ๐Ÿ’ท and you better believe it, I am not and never was or have any desire to be, as exciting as it might sound, a flight attendant๐Ÿ˜‚ I am pursuing a career outside the aviation industry ๐ŸŽ“ and to set the record straight I don’t spend every moment worrying about his conduct or where to hire a private investigator๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ˜„ my mans got his act together๐Ÿ˜„

Being married to a pilot comes with no perks ๐Ÿ˜‚ you have no stable sleeping pattern, his schedule always changes, hubby is gone for hours on end and when he is home he changes my routine, moves all my stuff and leaves again ๐Ÿ˜‚

Ok ok, I might have been a little to quick with the “no perks” statement ๐Ÿ˜‚ because Bae looks good in uniform๐Ÿ˜And he has a lot of days off so we get to spend QT together and I also have a lot time to myself to catch up on all my stuff which isn’t so bad๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™Š

But to continue pitfalls ๐Ÿ˜‚ because the list is longer๐Ÿ˜‚ I miss him when he is away ๐Ÿ˜ญ most of his friends are pilots๐Ÿ˜’ and boy do I love hearing about IFR, VFR, ILS approaches for hours on end… Yeah really I do ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜„ because that’s all they talk about! Aviation โœˆ๏ธ ๐Ÿ˜‚ and I guess it’s never guaranteed that you’ll be able to spend special occasions together:'(

The list can go on and on but I will always support my husband through low pay and crappy schedules๐Ÿ˜‚ because I love him so much:)๐Ÿ’‹

Lessons I am slowly learning is to bite my tongue, don’t hold grudges, take time for myself, make the home a home, go with the flow and bad days are okay…

But what I can’t deal with is that he won’t always call, be pleasant on the phone or respond to text messages ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜œ

And just a little advice do not marry an airline pilot UNLESS you have an incredible about of patience ๐Ÿ˜‚ I wish someone would have told me that๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜œ

That’s just a little insight to my very entertaining life, I absolutely love every minute of itโค๏ธ and I wouldn’t change a thing.

My life is awesome! I learn something new and valuable everyday and I am married to my best friend who happens to be a pilot ๐Ÿ™‚

So, to end this beautiful piece of blog! Remember that you can only steer your path. Others can or may influence what you do or how you do it, but only you can make the final approach and assure a smooth landing ๐Ÿ’‹

Take flight
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